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Post by theirry on Dec 5, 2010 19:54:09 GMT -5
Not as much as he cares about his friendship with Jemini... If he wants me back, he has to decide what means more to him.
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Post by Alucard on Dec 5, 2010 19:54:56 GMT -5
Do you really want to put him through that? You're his GF and Jemini is one of his, if not his, best friend. Don't put him through that choice.
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Post by theirry on Dec 5, 2010 19:56:44 GMT -5
He has to decide who means more, and so far it seems to be Jemini.
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Post by Alucard on Dec 5, 2010 19:57:12 GMT -5
I know you care about him. Do you really want to put him through this?
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Post by theirry on Dec 5, 2010 20:00:11 GMT -5
I don't want him to stop being friends with Jemini. But he should side with me over him, and if he won't, he can't be right for me.
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Post by Alucard on Dec 5, 2010 20:00:54 GMT -5
I think he would side with you over Jemini.
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Post by The Cat Clan on Dec 5, 2010 20:02:56 GMT -5
Though life IS about commitment, there are different types of commitments. People need a significant other, best friend, and sometimes even a rival.
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Post by theirry on Dec 5, 2010 20:06:46 GMT -5
I do care a lot about him, and he says he would side with me over him or anyone else and I'm far more important. But so far he's never sided with me on anything if it might bother Jemini, so it seems to not be true since he hasn't actually done what he said. It would suck more royally than I can imagine if he decides that he will not put his foot down to protect me, but if that's how it is so be it.
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Post by The Cat Clan on Dec 5, 2010 20:08:57 GMT -5
Imagine that relationships are like children. You can't ask a mother who her favorite child is and she has to make compromises. Your turn probably hasn't come around yet.
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Post by theirry on Dec 5, 2010 20:17:08 GMT -5
You said you could never feel love, so how can you say anything on it? Besides, I'm supposed to be more important and if I'm not then that's it. So stop trying to make me change my mind it won't work.
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Post by The Cat Clan on Dec 5, 2010 20:19:25 GMT -5
Self-help sites.
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Post by theirry on Dec 5, 2010 20:28:33 GMT -5
If it's on the internet it's not always true. And if I'm not more important then.... put two and two together
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Post by The Cat Clan on Dec 5, 2010 20:30:34 GMT -5
What I've heard on everywhere I went, even doctor's articles, is that you are equally important.
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Post by theirry on Dec 5, 2010 20:32:25 GMT -5
That shouldn't be true. That's the dumbest thing I ever heard. Significant others are always supposed to be more important than best friends. Otherwise you have a lousy relationship.
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Post by Alucard on Dec 5, 2010 20:33:57 GMT -5
She has a point, Cat. Romance is very important.
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